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Neither your boyfriend nor anyone else can cause you to have an orgasm. They can do some interesting things but you have your own orgasm. Changing your thinking can help.
Masturbation is the best way to learn what an orgasm is and what sets you off. What fantasy? What touching? What pressure? and so on.
Many women have their first orgasms with a vibrator. Though I rarely use one, my girlfriend does. I suspect that most women at this board own one or at least use one from time to time. They are great aids. I prefer my own fingers.
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Brandye
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