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Quote[/b] (Sailormanjack @ July 30 2005,03:20)] 
"Has anyone else had the problem where your wife just seems to lose all interest in sex? Is there a physical problem, or is it mental?"
Dear [/B]underpressure,[B]
Your questions (above) sum it up. I doubt if anyone here can answer the questions. As to whether your wife has a physical problem (possible but not likely), only a thorough examination by a physician can produce an answer.
Having determined that your wife is healthy, the two of you should go to couples therapy. Often, just a few sessions will work wonders. Phone a large hospital in your area and ask to speak to a social worker who will then be able to refer you to a therapist who can help.
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Hey I hear you brother. I am 49 years old and have been married to the same woman for 20 years. I was raised in a religous enviroment and was taught the save sex for marrage and God would bless the marrage. I did have sex before marrage but I didn't go looking for it. My wife and I love each other but my sex life has never taken off. He doesn't like to french kiss, no oral sex, sex in one postion, sex about once every 6 weeks. She says she's satisfied. I try to keep myself in shape by running, biking and Karate. My wife is sedentary. I did buy her the book
Becoming Orgasmic. I doubt she read it. A coworker invited me to join her and her husband for a threesome. Althought I would never do it, I found it intregign and was flattered that I could still turn a woman's head. I did bring up my concerns over my lack of sex. She says she gives me 100% but for me it's "man on top, get it over with quick" I feel the church lied to me..to save it for marrage..and I'm still saving it I've done everything I can think of. The wife is ridged and defenseive when talking about sex. Any suggustions?[QUOTE][CODE]