Married 5+ years, 2 kids but both great kids.
My wife and I are both pretty busy, between working (she works parttime, I own my own business) and the kids, but our sex life is really in the pits.
She is willing to have standard..."put it in me, til you're done" sex a few times a week but she is never actually interested in the act of sex.
If we do go for the big "Night of Sex" she has to lay there and try get herself worked up for 15 minutes before anything goes on, then if something doesn't go exactly as planned before she gets "all the way in the mood" then its all off for the night.
When we do have full blown sex and we both orgasm, then its great for both of us...our problem is, she never wants to do it.
Since our sex life went down hill we've tried introducing movies and toys into our life to try excite things, and that works fine...once shes turned on.
We talk openly about our sex life...quite often a frustrating conversation...so communication shouldn't be an issue.
Has anyone else had the problem where your wife just seems to lose all interest in sex? Is there a physical problem, or is it mental?
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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