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So this guy you think is for you would rather go to parties 24/7 instead of being with you...? That bears some thought, because "your guy" should think like you and want most of the same things you do.
I suppose we could analyze this thoroughly, but I'd keep it simple. Tell him straight up that you'd like some alone time with me. You might have to be quite direct and specific.
"Next weekend let's just you and me... pack a picnic and go...(or whatever)." If he won't agree to something like that at least occasionally, you might have to accept the fact that you are not his girl; you are his party date.
I know one MARRIED couple who constantly travel, go to parties, etc. Most people who know them have figured out that they do it because they don't like each other and even though it LOOKS like they are together they are anything but!
Don't let that happen to you.
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