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Quote[/b] (LittleFury @ July 05 2005,11:46)]Sex ain't skydiving, otherwise I doubt we would be here discuss all the emotions and resposibilities tied with it.
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Never were more truer words spoken. *What a great line Fury! *
See, the thing is that he came on here trying to get us to give him some quick tricks or ideas on how to get his wife involved in a 3some. *What he didn't know would happen is that we would actually think about his wife for a moment.
She was a virgin before you. *What makes you think she wants to do this, EVER? *She does not. *You are not going to talk her into having a 3some. *Well, maybe you could. *Here's how you do it.....
Say "hey wifey, I want to have a 3some. *If you don't do it with me, I'm going to divorce you. *I'll just walk away from you and the kids". *I bet that would get her attention and then if she was really weak willed and dependant upon you she would grudgingly comply with your request. *She would go ahead and let you set it up. *She would dully wake up the morning of, take the kids to the sitter's house while thinking "today is the day I have to break my marriage vows so my husband doesn't leave me.... I never thought it would come to this, but hopefully this will save our marriage and keep him around" *Then she will be there for the little 3some and be embarassed and insecure. *She'll want to cry because it's something she was forced into, but she's doing it for you" *
Eventually it will be over and you guys go back to your home. *She then keeps envisioning the night and feeling sick to her stomache because it's not the way she was raised and she didn't want to do it. *The marriage falls apart or weakens because she no longer trusts you. *
But in the end you got your 3some, so you're happy. *Is that how you wanted it to work?
*Sorry if this sounds terribly rude, but I'm growing tired of arguing the point that she will eventually "change her mind".
The original question was heavily modified so that it's not even a question anymore. Not quite sure why that was done???
Here's an idea. Why DON'T you guys go skydiving or something that doesn't involve her breaking her marriage vows or doing something that she would be ashamed to share with her friends the next day at lunch?? geeeeeze.
You can tell us the verbal definition of cheating, but you're really bordering on it. Sure, if you did it behind her back it would be blatantly cheating. But trying to set it up so you can do it in front her of her really doesn't make it A-OK!