[alan1969]

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Quote[/b] (LittleFury @ July 05 2005,14:44)]HAve I ever had a threesome mysef? No, I haven't. and I don't plan on it. BUt I know it would not end well, becuase I know myself well enough to know that insecurities, not about his fidelity, but about my competancy, would get to me. And yes, we have a strong relationship as well, we gotta to survive my mother and both of us going to school again.
And sex and skydiving is not the same thing. If she were to go skydiving with someone esle, a friend, that would not have been a big deal. If a partner were to have sex with someone other that their s/o, that would be cheating and in a lot of relationships would be grounds for break up or divorce.

cheating is when you trick ,deceive that person so if that person knows you are doing it and agree with it then its not cheating.Check the dictionary. In a open marriage you have rules and if you break them then you are cheating.