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Old 07-05-2005, 09:46 AM
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A lot of us, your gf or wife, have real good memory...we don't forget things for a long time. A lot of us have big insecurities, that maybe having nothing to do with fearing that you weill be unfaitful. A lot of us are worried that there is someone who you might find more attractive or better in bed. Especially if we were a virgin before we got married. And while it might seem ok at first, talking us into a threesome is a bad bad idea. While it mgiht be fun during you do it, it's like opening a Pandora's box. It mgiht turn out to be ok, but if it's not...you will wish it never happened. If she is set in her ways, and you force the change, it has a potential of really hurting her, and for her to be hurting for a really long time. Would you really want to take that chance with a woman you say you love?

PS. Sex should never be on the same level as activities as skydiving or mountain climbing. WHat do you get after doing those things even if you didn't want to do it in the beggining? Maybe a few sore muscles, a few pics and telling yourself in amusement "I can't belive I did that". It will nto effect you after next few days. Threesome can effect her for a long time, if not for the rest of her life. Sex ain't skydiving, otherwise I doubt we would be here discuss all the emotions and resposibilities tied with it.



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