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Quote[/b] (alan1969 @ July 04 2005,16:42)]skyby having a threesome is not about loving the other woman or man sure you have to like them but your in a marriage you love our wife or huby and i know if my wife changed her views i would make sure it was for the right reasons i can tell when she is doing things she doesnt want to do we have been married for 13 years and have two boys and if we can still be together after that im sure our marriage can survive any thing. You have to trust the person you love .
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I'm guessing that you trust your wife, but would you be willing to watch her get screwed by some other guy? My girlfriend trusts me alot, btu she won't get me a sex toy because she loves me so much that it would make her feel like I was cheating on her. She knows that I love her, and that I couldn't possibly love the friggin' toy, but her love is so bonding that it transcends reason and logic. This doesn't bother me one bit, I was just asking hypothetically, but I'm guessing that your wife loves you, and no matter how much you trust someone some people can't seperate sex and love. I sure as hell can't, and to tell the truth I don't want to.
Now, I understand that you are different than me, and you are entitled to your opinion, but I'm just saying, that you don't seem to respect your wives opinion, you just say that she could think otherwise, and that you don't understand what she is thinking. Try to understand her before you try to change her.