[lilly2279]

My ex husband wanted me to get into swinging too. I was a virgin before him and was not comfortable at all about being with other people. Plus I thought that would just be an open door for him to cheat. I considered it an uncaring request. I mean there comes a time when you need to accept the fact that you're married. Be faithful to her and enjoy life with her in all the other ways. Fulfull sexual fantasies together in the bedroom - alone!!

Ha ha. My ex sure was upset when he learned I went to a swing club when we were in our separation before our divorce. He was like "no way!! You wouldn't do it with me!!" Well that's because I was married, I happened to have taken our vows seriously.

Now that I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend i would NOT want to see him with another woman or be with another man besides him. I'm way too stingy to share!

If you're a couple that talked about swinging and both enjoyed it from the beginning and agreed upon it, then that's great!! Have fun! Enjoy it.

Asking her to do this when she has said she does not want to is wrong and disrespectful. Period.