[Tessie]

I got to agree with everyone else. There is a big difference in having fun with your wife and expecting her to have sex with another person. For women it is usually wrapped up with their emotions and we can't just have sex for the sake of sex alone.

I let my husband push me into swinging. I wanted to make him happy and allowed myself to do it even though I always knew it was wrong for me.

When I refused to do it anymore there was a lot of anger from him. There still it alot of anger. I just don't care anymore.

Keep the sex between you two and learn to be more creative without actually adding another person to your bed. Trust me you might really live to regret it.