I know what you're saying, but when I talk to her about sex, I don't let her know how frustrated and upset it makes me. I know she's new at it. But we've been active for 2 years and there's been no improvement. I could handle it not being good if there was some movement forward. She doesn't seem to trust my guidance or suggestions, no matter how small or simple. Everything is "weird" to her. I try to understand this. But after so much time, it's starting to get to me. I try to be as tactful and understanding and supportive as I can. And I know that's a lot more than more men would be. and as far as "all the other women who've pleased me", there's only been 1 other girl I was with. I've been focused on her since we first started, doing whatever I know she likes. Almost every time we are together, she has an orgasm (usually by manual stimulation since she's nervous with oral and won't try any new postions for penetration). I'm just a little frustrated. I think she knows, but I'm not as blunt with her as I am here.
But I think you're right on a few things. Thanks for the outside perspective.
