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Well, for starters let's try reverse thinking.
The beginning of your post is quite a list of things you and your at home girl CAN'T do.
Your assignment - should you choose to accept it - is to create a list of things you CAN do. But, of course, you should only do this assignment if you want to maintain a relationship or friendship.
The assignment applies even if you don't want to maintain a long distance relationship (which you say you don't).
"Subtractive thinking" (focusing on what we don't have) can easily become a habit. You might start looking at what you do have... what's around you, the opportunities, the newness of it all... I'm not talking only about girls and bedmates. I'm suggesting a different way of looking at your world. Fill your mind with what's ahead and there will be less room for missing what's behind.
If you change the way you are thinking and the things you are doing your feelings will follow. It may take some time.
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"The most fundamental form of human stupidity is forgetting what we were trying to do in the first place."
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