To you guys that think playing with someones butt is gay, did you realise that oral sex is also considered gay in some circles?
Anyway, my man thoroughly enjoys for me to finger him while we make love. The key is though, usually I've massaged him all over, so hes relaxed and totally vibing. I stay on top, and always make sure he is well lubricated, just massaging his inner thighs, and slowly massaging his perineum while moving with him
By the time I get to actually massaging his prostate hes already zoning, all he feels is pleasure and when he cums, he sure looks like its blowing his mind...haven't had any complaints about it so far. And I must admit, there is a hell of a lot of pleasure in knowing you can totally blow your man away