I really think it has to do with who you are partnered with. I have been with only 2 men. The first was quite large. The man I'm with now is noticeably smaller, both in length and width.
But, every time I had sex with the first man, it hurt. I am very tight, and it always hurt pretty bad at first, which isn't a good way to start off. My boyfriend now fits perfectly. He's big enough for a tight, snug fit, but not so tight that I'm in pain.
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