we do something similar iamawsum....
He likes to actually SEE the whole area, and Im shaved except for a landing strip

He likes me up on my knees and he licks, sucks, fingers from behind when Im in that position.Anal play is GREAT... for both the man and woman. Now we've never had actual anal sex.. but we eventually will, Im sure. Im up for it but we usually get so enthusiastic with other stuff.. there is no gentleness thats required for anal sex to be found
