Great, thanks everyone [for the feedback of course, though it helps that no-one seems to think what I'm doing is f*cked up and weird, lol]. In response to the protection issue Oberon, yes I am always careful, and so is he, so no problem there. I was really just interested in people's views on this subject, as it seems to be one that causes some debate. Looks to me like I really do have the perfect situation here!
Tease, I agree with you - really, all we're doing is getting together to give each other what we both want, and since neither of us have any higher expectations, whats wrong with that? If I'd gone into this making him think I wanted something more in order to get sex [or vice versa], that would be a different matter, but we've never lied to each other about what we want. And as for getting too attached, I seriously doubt that's going to happen. But if it did, who knows, people say we're 'good' together [whatever that means *
], so maybe that wouldn't be such a bad thing.
And thanks Wally, that was a really nice thing to say *
