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my husband and i first tried Anal Sex 15 yrs ago. It first hurt real bad.. but over the years of us trying we have come to be wiser in Anal sex.. Its best position is in a relaxed state of mind..Dont just rush into anal sex have fun first, kiss all over have your man give oral while he plays with your bum.. Use alot of lube and when you think you have to much.. use more..But please remember what hand goes into the bum does NOT go in the vagina.. he can use a latex glove to stimulate your bum.. Use one finger first ( remember guys go slow this area is delicate, check your finger nails also dont want to hurt her.) stimulate the anal area real good with one finger, when you can get one whole finger all in use your thumb to stimulate her, when you KNOW she's relaxed you can try two fingers, use alot more lube at this time, stimulate her more with the two fingers.. listen to her body it will tell you if she is enjoying it or not.. Ladies RELAX, if you need to use a dildo on your self to stimulate your clit to keep relaxed, do so.. Be careful guys if your DOING RIGHT you may make her cum right now.. thats OK there will be a next time.. but if not continue with the finger job.. IF she is ready, insert the tip of your penis DONT PUSH YET... let her guide you in.. Take off the glove and stimulate her clit, if you didnt use a glove use the other hand.. once you are in, go slow very slow.. use more lube.. Her body will tell you if she is enjoying it or not if not dont push it!!! let her relax,whisper something in her ear..
this can be a very wonderful experiance or a bad one it all depends on if you are relaxed and careful.. Ladies if you not ready for it DONT DO IT!!!! You need to be ready for it to have Anal Sex.. Guys always use a condem... Enjoy!!!
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