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Quote[/b] (shyshy @ Jan. 20 2005,08:19)]hi, my name speaks for itself. *I'm having the same problem. *My b/f wants me to talk dirty to him and I don't want to sound stupid. *He wants to hear over the phone sometimes when we talk during the day, and I feel like I'm put on the spot and I know what ever I say will probably sound like a fake porn line. *I don't know what to do. *Over the phone it just does not sound right!  |
totally shy shy...my guy keeps trying to make me explain stuff and it just embarrasses me...i just dont feel comfortable tlking over the phone about stuff like that! dont feel pressured...only do it if u wnt to - u gotta be in the mood!
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It is always awkward at first to try anything new..
Look for the motivation behind him wanting you to talk that way...
What is hot is not the words, but what the words convey... a deep intense sexiness and desire...
You have that on the phone and it doesn't matter what you are saying. Learn to be descriptive to paint mental pictures in his mind.
be true to who you are... and reflect that in your words.
Find words that you are comfortable with that convey the same deep intense sexiness and desire... make up your own words... be creative and imaginative use your English lit classes, personify, metaphores, similes... and then they become your own special words just between you and not shared with every porn site...making them all the more sexy and desirable, taboo and secret.
once comfortable with your own words you can sprinkle a few of the "dirty" words in for emphasis of intensity...
as for talking on the phone... look for a win/win for both of you... how about you practice talking back and forth via this board. LOL there are lots of examples of that here.
Try some of the dirty talk ad libs. They are fun... how about starting an actual ad lib on a thread?
anyone?