[iamawesum69420]

I'm glad we've gotten back to the original topic. We kinda got offtrack there for awhile but anyway...

The reason I brought this up is from a past experience. I met this guy and there was immediate sexual tension so it wasn't long before we were in the back of his ford explorer getting down to business so to speak. Well we hooked up a few more times and that was the only reason we would see each other. We would talk a bit online and on the phone but every time we would see each other in person it was to have sex. Well he ended up telling me that we could never be in a relationship and I was wondering if maybe I ruined things by having sex with him too quickly or maybe it just wasn't meant to be because I had discussed it with some friends of mine and they said we should've held off on having sex and it would've been possible for a relationship with him if I would've waited and/or made him wait.

Well with my current boyfriend we didn't have sex but didn't everything but on the day we met and our relationship is great. The only thing really different is we met through a mutual friend and had a lot of conversations on the phone and online before we actually met so this may have something to do with it. I just wanted to get some other opinions on the subject.