[thetease13]

Back on the original topic... I think in some cases it can hurt, but in some cases it doesn't.

Me and my guy, we have a fairly strong sexual attraction. I mean yes, there is other attractions, but one of the main things is the sexual attraction.
After he first admitted to finding me attractive, 3 days later we were on the phone and I was talking about guys in my past and how I'd never done anything (anything period. not even a kiss. lol.) and how he'd pretty much like to be the person to fix that.

And throughout the week we talked and by the end week, when we were gonna see each other again, we took the first step and I let him play with my boob. Yea, it sounds stupid, but that's how it began. lol.
And then the neck kissing started and week after week, we did different things and it all eventually lead to him being my first, which is something I definately do not regret.

And it's pretty much been a year and a half since all that began and while we do have our ups and downs, we're still "together" so to speak... if that's possible for two people that really aren't together, but are. lol.

So anyways, while we didn't have sex right off, the sexual attraction and tension was there from pretty much the start. I wasn't exactly going to just hop into the sac with him since I was a virgin so I needed some thinking time. But after a month and a half of like doing smaller things, I knew that I wanted him to be my first and a few weeks later I admitted that to him and a couple months after that, when time allowed us, it happened.

And I'll stop rambling now as I'm not sure what I said really helped.