[yetagainsorrows]

I agree with Iamawesum, she is enjoying something that intrests her right now. I can't speak for her but for me, it goes in phases. We explore and try and some times when it is out of my system I don't go back to it. Or maybe it wasn't like I was thinking it would be like and decided to leave it to my fantasy and porn.

The big point and I do mean big is that you are married and this should not become an issue. Communication is the key. If you are not comfotrable, like you sound. Then ask her not to live her fantasy out. It's about love, respect for you as well as herself. Was she upset that she had sex with all those men at the club, she didn't think it was going to be that many. Did she see it as she went too far? Drinking and loosing all inhabition is not good either, does she only think of living this fantasy when she is out having fun?

There is nothing wrong with her being open to her sexual being, but you are a pertner in this and it should be SAFE, FUN, and AGREED on by both parties.