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Okay, I'll take a stab at this. *First, I'm going with this being two MF couples. *Serotonin talks about his girlfriend and the other girl has a "fiance" so (unless they live in Massachusetts) that means male. *
Knowing a little something about unconventional relationships, I'd say that something like this is ONLY going to work out if all the individuals involved are totally committed to the relationship. *If even just one feels out of place then it's not going to work for any of you. *
As to what her issues might be... I think the "unconventional" thing might be it. *It's terribly hard to be different. *How is this four-way going to work down the road? *Are you planning on having kids? *Is that child going to have to say, "Hey, I need extra space on this school form for my other mommy and daddy."? *
I'm not saying that there is anything wrong with your scenario, just that it's going to take all four working together to make it happen. *It's also going to take a pretty strong attitude of "We don't care what anyone else thinks". *
Good Luck and Best Wishes.
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