[lilly2279]

Muppet, you didn't do a thing wrong and after re-reading my post I hope I did not sound like I was commanding you to change. Although some people thought that is what I was doing. That is NOT the case, I swear. I was simply giving some suggestions. Not one single person on here thinks you are a slut.

And to tell you the truth, I've had my share of first dates like that. I just have found that if you give it up so easily, it's like the game is over and they don't call. lol, maybe I'm a lousy lay?? Or if they did call, it was for a booty call hook-up.

Please don't take my post as me telilng you what you should do.

And monie, please do NOT tell me what to post.. I was trying to help by giving suggestions. I was not being rude or abusive to her.

Good luck Muppet. You have the right idea and you have NOT done a thing wrong. I think he was wrong by being intimate with you and then not even having the decency to call back. That is his mistake.

We are all very sexual creatures! Sex is natural and good. It sucks that it makes women seem bad to give it up, but not for men. And yeah, it's like jumping back 50 years. That really bites. I wonder how long it will take until that changes. But I guess someone will always have an opinion of it. So to each his own.

good luck, hon.