[lilly2279]

Bottom line is that it seems most men don't want a girl that just gives it up the first time they meet them. If they do that, they think they just give it up to everyone. do they want to keep a girl who's been with all the guys in town? Not really!

Change the way you are presenting yourself. When you go on a date, dress a bit more conservatively. Don't show a ton of skin. Leave something to the imagination. Don't get into ANY make-out session on the first date. Try to keep things light and minimize "alone" time. If he gets pissy and thinks you are a prude, then he's one of the guys that just wanted to have sex with you and move on. Be glad you didn't give it up to him. It may be hard to do, but really really try!

They will have more respect for you if they don't think you are just an easy lay. Give them a chance to get to know you. Then let things gradually move in that direction. Give him a little bit of a chase, at least!

Now get back on that horse. Meet a new guy and be a good girl. Tell us how things go!

Good luck!