[lilly2279]

Well, this behavior doesn't sound like the flirting of a mature woman... How old are we talking here?

This may be the only way she knows to flirt with you. It's her way of touching.. which is a start.

If you are already intimate with her, try flirting in a more traditional way if you like, to see how she takes it.

Maybe one day when you're behind her, gently touch the side of her neck, just light enough to tickle... and perk those nipples right up.. or a light tracing down the inside of her arm from the elbow down to the finger tips..

Show her a kindler gentler way to flirt physically...

When she feels comfortable she may find nice ways to thrill you, as well...