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Here is an interesting thread, for those who are close friends with women, NOT boyfriend/girlfriend type, just friends first. What are some ways to keep friends with them? This is a good thread for guys who are close friends with women that won't screw up their friendship with. Seems like guys who are "close friends" (not lovers) with women friendships end so soon for some odd reasons.
Helpful advice and some good points on keeping close friends with women:
1. Do not ask her for sex
(This is the big one, you wonder how friendhips with women/guys end so quickly, 'cause horny guys thinking the friendship is all about the sex)
2. Do not accuse her of sleeping around with a bunch of different guys
(*sigh* Just because you're close friends with a woman, and if you see her talking to other guys as friends doesn't mean she's a slut. Maybe she prefers to be close friends with mostly guys? Nothing wrong with it, some women are like that. Just respect her with what she does. If you hang around her while she's hanging with other guys you could become good friends with the other guys she's friends with, that's called being sociable and meeting new people which is a good thing)
3. Do not look obsessive with her
(You can say things like "She's beautiful" and "Very pretty", 'cause women like being flattered when guys say things like that to her, but ways to not look obsessive with her....a) don't spend too much time with her (unless she gives you permission) b) do not phone/e-mail her everyday (unless she wants it) c) Do not hug her too much (unless she wants it)
4. Treat her like a human being
(She's a human being like all of us. Respect her the human being she is, and that's a way to keep a friendship)
Ok, that's all I can think, you continue down the list. You're turn to continue on to no. 5.
Thanks. And happy new year.
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