[Alspals69]

Sgurl, i think the last paragraph of your original email probably summed it up.... things that feel wrong have an element of spice about them!!!!

An example of this would be one of my ex's who was catholic and with a huge guilt complex about sex outside of mairrage. She had the most incredible orgasms I had ever seen.

It is certainly also true that your relationship with your current guy is not comparable with the other one... its a different and probably ultimately more fruitful thing. But that wasn't what you were asking... so how to make the sex you have even better?

Its a very individual thing, but would it be worth trying to add that naughty feeling by includig an element of risk? A couple of hot encounters I have had include sex in the only bathroom at a party and a fantastic time in a shared house when we ended up having sex in a downstairs room with the door open and the chance of getting caught. Although this was never planned... more of a spur of the moment thing... it did the trick for us.

Just a thought. Good luck!!!