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Perhaps you can try to recognize the difference between the "fling" you had with that guy, and the relationship you now have with your boyfriend. The fling was all about sex, while I'm sure your relationship is about more than sex. You are with him because you love him, right? If so, then you could emphasize that the sex you have with your boyfrined is better than any other sex youve had because it iswith him, and you wouldnt want to be with anybody else. It is special because you love him. I hope you understand what Im trying to say, cause its hard for me to explain.
I took this approach with my most recent boyfriend. He was a virgin, and I was not. This made him nervous about his first time "performance". While my previous partner was my first serious relationship, I assured my new bf that once we had sex, it would be special because it was with him, and I didnt want to be with anyone else. I also assured him that there is no such thing as a "beggining expert", meaning that everything takes practice. Well, it worked, and our first time together was amazing.
While our situations are different, Im thinking that my technique could work in your situation too. Give it a try, I think it should do some good.
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