Well, it has been so long since I've posted here that my original post name was deleted, haha.
Here I go - So, I love my boyfriend, he is the greatest person I know and he respects who I am and what I want more than any guy I've ever met. *We've been having sex for quite some time and well, the sex is great, I don't think either of us can complain.
My "problem," is that before I was going out with my boyfriend (almost a year now
) I had a little seven month fling with this other guy. *While my boyfriend pleases me in every way, including sexually, I just can't seem to forget how amazing sex with this other guy was. *He was never boyfriend material and I'd never date him, it was more of a "sex buddy" relationship. *Just for the record, my boyfriend is fully aware of my sexual history and knows that I had a sex buddy for a few months. *He even knows that the last time I had sex with the guy was only four days before we started going out. *
I'm assuming that my little affair yielded such amazing sex because I knew I shouldn't do it and there was always the excitement of getting caught. *Plus it wasn't a regular thing, just an occasional night together (but what a night it'd be!). *I guess I'm looking for ways to take the relationship I'm in now and add a little spice to it, for my pleasure and my boyfriend's. *I want to be able to call the sex in our relationship the best sex I have ever had. *Any ideas?