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Quote[/b] (thetease13 @ Dec. 19 2004,14:12)]And you know what?
People lie. *People lie all the time. *And a lot of the times it's about stupid things. *I'm sure you've done it to her. *And if you shrugged her stupid lies off after 6 months, why is it suddenly a big huge deal a year later?
If they were that big of a deal, as they apparently are now, you wouldn't have still been with her. *I personally think you were just looking for things to throw at her while trying to break up with her.
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well, first on the quote. Lying for some people is a big thing. my girlfriend broke up with me on the premise that i lied to her. it wasn't even a lie really, it was just not telling all of the truth all at the same time (even though i did tell it all and had intended to the whole time). so sometimes it can be a big thing. Not necessarily in this case, but often enough it is
about the girl. it sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. and that could be part of the problem with the relationship for you. but it doesn't sound like she necessarily wants to break up with you, especially since she was trying to move on and mend things after a big fight.
and finally, about pelezo. i'd suggest you take a break from this relationship. talk things over with the girl and mend any bad blood, but don't get back together just yet. and i'd also suggest not trying to get together with anyone at the moment. just experience and remember what it feels like not to have your girlfriend, and you may appreciate her more if you two ever get back together.