I hated using KY! It caused a buring sensation at times with me as well.
Stay away from lube with spermacide! Ouch!!!
I personally consider the natural way to be the best way! Though the famale body does not always permit this. Another natural alternative is saliva
There is just something creepy about lube... in my mind, a wet pussy is not supposed to be cold! *shiver*
Kathleen