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I think the first step here for both of you- before you can even think about being in a relationship together- is you BOTH need to be single. You're separated and she's in a relationship... it really doesn't matter with whom. (I know it's not really germane to your question, but I wonder, why after two years you aren't divorced? Is there some chance of reconciling? Anyway...)
It's also going to take both of you to decide this. YOU may want a relationship, but if she's not willing to leave the person she is with now- for whatever reason- then it's pretty much a no go.
Step one... get to a place where a relationship is even possible.
Take care.
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