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i think WallyLlama and lilly2279 are right. I've been married for almost 14 years (been together off and on for 25!) and i've been there (way too many times). you cant take back what you said, and you are in a no win situation. after all these years, i still cant figure out what goes on in her mond sometimes. what works to solve the problem today wont always work tomorrow.
My advice is make your apology, but dont dwell on it over and over. i like the idea of asking her what you should do to make it better. I do that alot. you'd be surprised how often you dont get an answer, but it lets them know you care and gives them a chance to know they are over-reacting without having to admit it.
go out of your way to be attentive without being too pussy whipped or just go all out and beg forgiveness at the alter of her power. but the bottom line is: in time it will pass. if there is an underlying problem that will not go away and will crop up again, but this crisis will blow over.
strange thing is, my wife and I almost always have a fight in the week/days before we go on vacation. something about the stress of getting everything taken care of before and pressure of actually getting away and having a good time!
good luck and enjoy the vacation!! (oh and wild sex several times a day on vacation never hurts!)
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