Honey, you should know by now that words will not get you out of a negative situation... Especially when words were what put you in that negative situation in the first place.
All you can do now is show her how much you love her, and show her how attracted you are to her. You might want to give her extra attention when she is in her bathing suit!
Her insecurities... when it comes down to it, are not about the other woman. Instead it's about what you might see in the other woman.
She was trying to communicate with you in an indirect way (as many of us woman do). She was letting you know that she had realized that she was a bit bigger than the other woman, and she needed to know that despite the fact, you still found her more appealing.
Hope this helps!
Kathleen
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