[lilly2279]

I think Wally has a great idea.

Something else to try... You sound like a wonderful husband, by the way. My boyfriend gets in trouble sometimes like that too and he's the best. But he called me his chubby monkey or something like that and I gave him "the look". lol. I know he loves me, but if someone is really insecure it can feed on your mind and make you feel horrible.

Okay, onto what I was saying to try and got sidetracked.. Write her a letter. Tell her in a letter how beautiful you think she is. Tell her maybe certain times you may have looked at her and been so in love. How much you love that she gave you two beautiful children. I wouldn't go into the fact that you'd love her no matter how big she was.. That doesn't make us very happy. Just basically a letter (love letter, if you will) sharing how much she really means to you.

Write it and put it somewhere that she will find it when you are not around. Hopefully you're good enough to make her cry at how much you love and adore her.

Good luck!