Insight:
Been married 5 years, have 2 kids...marriage is above average to great in my opinion and great in my wifes opinion.
Problem:
We are going on holidays with 2 other couples.
My wife said last night that she was worried about being in a bathing suit around the other 2 females, both of which are smaller, and shorter than she is.
My wife has gone from 5'8 145 lbs when we married to 5'8" 175 lbs after 5 years (and 2 kids, last one is 14 months old now). She has never been supermodel thin but she has always been very, very attractive...not only to me, but to many other guys who have expressed interest.
My mistake:
I agreed with her when she said she was bigger than the other 2 women!
I probably should've told a white lie and sid "Don't worry about it" but it seemed like a good idea to tell the truth.
Now what?
My wife is mad at me and says I no longer find her attractive, which is definitely not the case. I love my wife and would find her attractive even if she was 250 lbs and have told her so.
Telling her this solved 0 problems.
Should I just wait til she gets over this, or is there something I should say to ease her pain?
I can't really take back what I said now b/c its too obvious now.
This might not be a total sex problem for this message board...but it will be if I don't find a solution...it'll be a LACK OF SEX PROBLEM
