[vagabondprince]

one thing i didn't see here is one thing i read about somewhere and have found to be very useful in pleasing during both oral and while fingering...

the clitoris is much more than just the little bud that is hidden in the top folds of the labia. it is a thin stem that runs from that bud forward/upward. you really can't feel it normally, but when a girl is aroused it stiffens, much like an erection does for a guy. once the girl is aroused you can run your finger across the mons (or just south of the mons really), and kind of feel that shaft buried in there. As it is part of the clit, it has that concentration of nerves, and can be stimulated as well.

One of my little tricks when i'm eating a girl out is, while she's laying on her back and i'm down there, i'll lick horizontally just above where the clit head is, or i'll lick up and down, feeling the clit stem just to one side of where i'm applying the most pressure. this is kind of like stroking the penis in the way it stimulates. this technique may be good as part of that teasing, or for stimulation of someone whose clit head is too sensitive. this is only a small part of my cunnilingual repertoir, but i'll spare the rest because it is quite similar to what SweetHomeAlabama said a couple of posts above mine.