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This sounds like a series of young (immature) relationships and I'm not sure but what the gal is actually showing the clearest thinking.
She's made her choice and clearly states the "ground rules" with her suggestion that you - at least temporarily - only get together with others. I think at some level she sees that you both tend to end up with each other for the wrong reasons and she's trying to prevent that from happening.
She is not putting you through emotional stress. You are doing that to yourself. Stress is always the result of our desire to have things differently than they are. You want her to want you. She does not want you. If you go much beyond that, you're overcomplicating things.
As Vag has suggested, this may well be more about you than her.
I don't think the situation requires that you totally dismiss and ignore her - assuming you can get her into perspective. "Never say 'Never," meaning there's a chance she might develop an interest in you at some point in the future. But if you cling, if you whine, if you stay obsessed with her you'll destroy any chance of that.
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