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Quote[/b] (eidrien83 @ Oct. 26 2004,02:34)]2. she is younger than me by 3 years so combined with being a virgin i wonder is her age has anything to do with it.. this is the first virgin i have dated. and ive noticed that when there is something i dont want to do,(go shopping with her) she will throw the idea of messing around out at me if i do go.
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You haven't said how old she is, but from all indications and your observations, I'd say she's fairly young and her age has everything to do with it. She probably doesn't know for sure what she wants most of the time.
I gotta give her credit for figuring you out, though. Think about it. She wants to stay a virgin but has figured out that hinting she might not gives her power over you.
Frankly, it sounds like you're working awfully hard at convincing yourself that deep down she wants to have sex with you. Maybe she does, but "wanting" doesn't mean she's going to do it and it doesn't give you permission to influence her decision. No is No, as they say. It's not head games - it's saying no to desires and impulses.
If you care for her you might consider helping her with it... tell her that she needs to be more consistent with her words and actions... and that you'll go shopping with her occasionally even if she does want to stay a virgin.
A virgin is a person and very much like all other people, it's just someone who hasn't had sex yet (well, by most definitions LOL).