[Jaybee]

Hmmm...this one is tough (no pun intended!).

I think 3-5 times a day, EVERY day is excessive strain on your penis, even though you're in your prime. I used to masturbate for hours at a time during the day at 21-22, but I did that every week or two, certainly not daily.

Could be your body's way of telling you to slow it down. I went through a period a couple of years ago when I used sex as a crutch for the pressures of work. I'd come home furious and frustrated, and hit the porn feeling very angry. I got into some EXTREMELY rough masturbating practices. Had to go on tablets to repair the traumatised tissue near the base.

I feel for you, I really do; I know what it is to be surrounded by SO much tantalising, hot flesh; it's not easy at 35 to restrain myself, Christ knows it must be nearly impossible at 20. I know you're drowning in your own semen, so was I.

Go to the doctor, Amiltryptelene can lower your libido somewhat, with the secondary effect of making you drowsy, that should allow you to sleep without having to whack off first.

Best of luck,


Jaybee.