ok just wanted to add my 2 cents to this....
I was a virgin til i was 25...yes 25, and that was only three months ago that it happened. I wasn't particularly proud of that fact, in fact many of my friends thought I wasn't. I talked the talk but never walked the walk. Like you I wasn't all that good at dating...half the guys who asked me out were creeps and I could never get the nerve to ask a guy out. Oh by the way I also work the graveyard shift, and incidently that 's how I met Brandon...my friend with benefits
He works graveyard also at another hotel where he does security. Maybe you should try meeting other people who work the same shift as you do. Its not that hard, I'm sure they are just as bored as I was...not much happens in the wee hours of the morning. I talk with half the night shift in my area while at work and later on we hang out...after sleeping in of course
