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Quote[/b] (WallyLlama @ Aug. 18 2004,12:12)]Two, you haven't given much in the way of reasons to do it. You've eliminated the most common reasons for waiting, but have you truly identified why you want to do it? It sounds more like "might as well, it's gonna happen anyway."
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Quote[/b] (sweetie1987 @ Aug. 18 2004,20:39)]2, i guess i didn't make that clear either what my reasons FOR having sex are. well, because i love him and because i want to express it by making love to him and i know he feels the same.
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Hmmm, so you are basically doing this for your boyfriend? When two people (who are already in love) share their bodies, they do emphasize their love, but I think you should also have sex becouse of yourself, that is, for your pleasure/joy... (Don't get me wrong, sex is also about pleasing your beloved partner, but not only that. You should give AND receive pleasure.) |
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Quote[/b] (WallyLlama @ Aug. 18 2004,12:12)]Two, you haven't given much in the way of reasons to do it. You've eliminated the most common reasons for waiting, but have you truly identified why you want to do it? It sounds more like "might as well, it's gonna happen anyway."
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Quote[/b] (sweetie1987 @ Aug. 18 2004,20:39)]2, i guess i didn't make that clear either what my reasons FOR having sex are. well, because i love him and because i want to express it by making love to him and i know he feels the same.
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Hmmm, so you are basically doing this for your boyfriend? When two people (who are already in love) share their bodies, they do emphasize their love, but I think you should also have sex becouse of yourself, that is, for your pleasure/joy... (Don't get me wrong, sex is also about pleasing your beloved partner, but not only that. You should give AND receive pleasure.)
ok u misunderstood me again lol. he has NOTHING to do with my decision. i'm doing it because it will be enjoyable for me and i know it will make me happy. and i also wanna feel closer and more intimate with him. trust me if he had anything to do with my decision i would have sex already.