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to ductapefaerie, i guess i didn't make that too clear. we have talked about this many many times and we are very open with each other when it comes to our feelings on the subject of sex.
to wallyllama, my boyfriend has nothing to do with me wanting to have sex. he has never pressured me once to do it and this is completely my decision. although he has tried to make me feel more ready and more comfortable it is only because i asked him to. 2, i guess i didn't make that clear either what my reasons FOR having sex are. well, because i love him and because i want to express it by making love to him and i know he feels the same. 3, that is partially true i guess. but i do know now that i'm ready and this is a sure thing (other times i thought i was ready but i realized eventually that i wasn't) and i guess the only reason i posted this was to get a second opinion and an outside view on if i should be having sex. i might feel ready, but maybe someone else might disagree on my maturity for it? thats pretty much why i posted in here.
to zool, yeah i guess it should come more naturally but it's just my nature to plan everything out (i'm a perfectionist).
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