[Jaybee]

Guys/girls, your help needed.

I'm shortly back on the hunt, and I want to go in well-prepared. *As we start having sex, I want her to tell me everything she likes, what her turn-ons are, what kind of things she likes to hear, to see, to feel etc.

But the thing is, how do I get the cogs in her brain turning? *Most people don't give much thought to what pushes them over the edge. *For example, I could ask her flat out, "What are your sexual fantasies?" *But I don't think this would be enough - if you asked ME that question, I'd say, other than the usual suspects (great body/face);

1) Know how/when to talk sexy, and dirty;

2) Sex outdoors;

3) Sex in a hotel room with the door open

4 Sex with a woman of high physical strength and energy;

5) She doesn't whimper, but screams.


Ok, I got to 5, but that's not much for someone who logged on at THIS site!! *I should be able to write 15 paragraphs at least. *

I just need a plan to tap into her innermost fantasies. *Does she long to be screwed without warning? * What kind of foreplay does she prefer? *Does she want me to wear a 'Gladiator' outfit? *What/who does she think about when masturbating? *How do I go about getting this from her? *Or better yet, how do I get HER to think long and hard about what she wants?

Maybe there's a comprehensive sex survey, about a hundred questions long ('Describe your ultimate sex partners physique') that I could put to her? *Now, the aim of all this, of course, is to improve our sex life. *Another important goal is that she'll become motivated to reciprocate my attention to her details, and develop a deep fascination for what rocks MY boat. *

How do YOU guys and girls get your partners thinking and talking about what they like?


JB.