Hey Bewitching,
I just read this whole thread. My boyfriend and i just broke up last week (long story- the post is called "Boyfriend broke up with me" if you want to know more). Well for the past few days I have been thinking about what we should not have done in the relationship and what not to do next time- be it with each other or other people (i really hope each other.) I know that one of my mistakes was an insecurity issue. It was partially a prob. with other girls, also with porn. I dont want to have this prob next time, and have been wondering what to do so that i dont. Reading your post definitely helped me. We still hang out, so i know what to do if i want him back. Also, you gave me tips for how to boost my confidence. I feel better already! Thanks so much. I will keep your tips in mind everyday.
Hopefully next relationship will turn out differently.