[demonbuttercup]

yeah those are some good tips.
this happens to me sometimes. im definetly not set in a certain pattern.
sometimes if its been awhile i can orgasm in less than 5 minutes...usually its around 15-20 minutes i guess. other times it takes me FOREVER and other times i can't at all. just depends on my mood and how much foreplay usually.

if it takes me awhile my b/f can usually hold himself off. he tends to like it when it doesn't take me long. that way he doesn't have to prolong himself.
id do what wally says. once you are done, pleasure him for awhile manually or orally.
i find if i orgasm and then wait for a little bit im not as sensitive. you might even get to have 2 or 3 orgasms by the time he gets one if you do this.

like wally said, its very difficult timing wise to both cum at the same time. i think ive only done it maybe once or twice. 95% of the time im done before my b/f. i usually have no trouble going a few more minutes until he's done.
if your clit is way too sensitive, try positions where you aren't hitting it.
like you on top and missionary rubs it more. try doggy style after you are done. that way he can finish and he won't be rubbing up against your clit.
good luck


ps. another thing, i know for me there are time i want it to last longer, but i feel it coming already. just remember to take it slow. i slow myself down a lot and just enjoy it. you don't have to be a speedy all the time.
if im on top i can control this. if he's on top just tell him to take it slow.