Thread: cuming to fast?
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Old 06-16-2004, 02:33 PM
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Not sure I can offer a lot of help, but felt you should get some sort of response to your post.

You're right, this is an unusual situation. I'm not sure there is one answer.. part of it may be some experimenting. You may want to try different techniques and positions and see how they affect your, um, timing.

You might, for example, want to concentrate on him for a while... and he doesn't touch until he's close. :-)

But I'd quickly add that if your boyfriend is happy and you are too... well, throw away the stopwatch. There are no rules, so to speak. Cumming together is no easy task and some couples never seem to achieve it, so I would not make that a goal at this point.

If you cum and he hasn't... well, you might finish him by hand if it hurts you to continue intercourse. The key is that you both end up being "content" with your time together.

Just relax and enjoy each other in different ways... try to concentrate on simply enjoying yourselves and each other.

Wally
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