[experimenter]

I'm glad to hear that there are more of "us" out there. At least I used to be part of the "us" category. I met my husband when I was 14, (he was 19). We were both virgins, and everyone thought that he was with me for sex. No one could understand our relationship. We got married shortly after I turned 18 (yes, we were both still virgins), and I know alot of people thought we "had" to get married, if you know what I mean. And there were also a lot of people who said they didn't think the marriage would last 6 months. Well, we are now close to celebrating our 5th anniversary. So much for what other people know. I guess my point is, you have to follow your heart and disregard the things that other people say. My only regret is that we were both relatively sheltered as far as sex info goes, so our sex life is still a little "dull". Found this place though and am hoping to "spice" things up a bit.

On a more personal note, our being virgins was a choice based upon our religious beliefs. Believe me, it isn't easy staying a virgin sometimes. So for those of you who are still virgins, I have the utmost respect for you. I am not the type of person who would have felt comfortable having sex with many men. One suits me just fine.