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Quote[/b] (Greendale @ May 03 2004,13:43)]Thanks for agreeing with me everyone. Yes, I think it is wrong and immature for someone to make fun of someone over 20 years old still being a virgin.
But I do plan on to lose my virginity real soon, my goal is I'm hoping to lose my viriginity before I hit 30 years old.
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Hey Greendale,
Forget about age. *Age is just a number over which you have no control. *It's not about how old you are when you have sex for the first time, but rather how you feel and what you hope to get out of the experience. *I'm sure that when you finally do experience it for the first time, you'll be glad you waited for the right girl to come along, just as I will be glad my right girl comes along.
I just turned 30, and yes, I'm still a virgin. *Not only that, but I'm damn proud of it. *And if the people you hang around with are giving you a hard time or teasing you or anything along those lines, maybe it's time to re-evaluate the friends you keep. *My friends never give me any grief about it because they've come to respect that it's a personal choice that I have made a long time ago.
I'm a perfectly healthy and normal male. *I have a great career, I take exceptional care of myself physically, and I know exactly what I want out of life. *I have my sexual urges and desires the same as everyone else does. *The only difference is that I'm an "evolved male", as I like to refer to it, because I am able to separate sex from my everyday life. *To me, sex is something that I will share with the one girl that I'll spend the rest of my life with. *I haven't met her yet, but I'm sure she's out there.
I've had plenty of "sexual experience" over the last 10 years since my first serious girlfriend, but I never went "all the way". *I always knew where my limits were, and so did my girlfriends. *I actually ended my last relationship about a year ago because she was becoming too obsessive with her sexual needs, and refused to understand my position which I have maintained for many years before I met her, which is that I will not have sex with her (or anyone else) until I have a committment from that person which will lead to marriage. *
The ironic thing is that today, most women I meet find me all the more appealing and attractive due to the fact that I'm still a virgin. *They love the fact that I don't sleep around and that I'm not a player looking for the next sure thing. *They love knowing that I'm looking for something serious and long-term and last but certainly not least, they love knowing they have nothing to fear from me in terms of having 7 or 8 different STDs.
So hang in there, and never let anyone make you feel bad about it. *Your time will come, but don't try to force the issue. *One of the things you said was you want to lose your virginity soon, preferably by the age of 30. *My advice to you would be to lose the "plan", and just go with what feels right. *If you meet someone you want to have that experience with for the first time, it might happen tomorrow or it might not happen until next month, or next year, or maybe not for the next 5 years. *The choice is yours to make, and yours alone.
You're absolutely right. *There's so much more to life than just sex, and sadly there are so many idiot men (and women) who have their priorities completely screwed up.