Those are good points you made there. Also remember its fine to go out and meet different women but guard your heart. I know that with nice, quiet guys they tend to also be romantics and you have to be careful that she is worthy of that.
And be open and honest at the same time. Tell a woman what you are looking for and what you expect. There are nice women out there that would just love to have a guy like you.
Don't give up on us just be very careful. Take it slow like you said and build a real friendship. The best relationships are when you can be both friends and lovers. *
